Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Freedom to Read/Banned Book Week

Book
Deenie by Judy Blume

Why it was banned
The main reason the book has been banned is the inappropriate themes geared toward adolescents. Some of the themes include masturbation and menstruation.

Brief Summary of the Book
This story is about a seventh grade girl named Deenie who at the demanding hand of her mother is being pushed to become a model. She cannot seem to book any jobs because of her slouching. When a gym teacher calls her into her office to tell her to go see a doctor, Deenie starts to freak out that something is really wrong with her. After several doctor visits, Deenie learns that she has adolescent idiopathic scoliosis. The book goes through the trials and tribulations of her accepting her condition, getting fitted for a back brace which she will wear for the next four years, and dealing with her peers’ reaction to her new situation of wearing the brace every day.

My thoughts
First off, it was really nice to read a Judy Blume book again. I had read several growing up and always liked the straight-forwardness of her writing and the topics she wrote about. This book read almost like an information pamphlet; there really isn’t much in the way of flowery descriptions or really deep, emotionally-driven characters. But then again, this book is written for a younger age group and that’s not really Ms. Blume’s style.

I never really felt like there was anything in this book that was inappropriate for the age group that would be reading it. It deals with a lot of issues that junior high students would be going through, so it seemed pretty relevant to their daily lives. I like how Judy Blume never really shies away from uncomfortable declarations or character thoughts. An example of this was when Deenie sees a group of special needs children at her school and says, “I’m always scared Gena Courtney will see me and say something and I won’t know what to say back.” (p.19) I loved the honesty of that statement because the fear of interacting with people you are unsure of how to respond to is something young adults have to muddle through. Deenie and her classmates are at that age where they are finally becoming aware of the social status of their peers and what is accepted behavior to be deemed popular. This issue is also brought up again when Deenie interacts with Barbara. At first she calls the red patches on Barbara the “creeping crud” and tries her best to stay away. Only after feeling ostracized herself about her brace does Deenie see Barbara as a regular human. They even become friends at the end. It’s a nice little metaphor for showing that most things scare people because they don’t know much about them, but at the end of the day, we are all humans and we should all treat each other with love and respect.

The first glimpse at the masturbation topic seemed to kind of come out of nowhere with little to no transition into it. One minute Deenie was upset about something her parents had said and the next minute it’s about masturbating. “I have this special place and when I rub it I get a very nice feeling. I don’t know what it’s called or if anyone else has it but when I have trouble falling asleep, touching my special place helps a lot.” (p. 57) Again I can see where some teachers or parents might see this as inappropriate for their children to read, but these are the issues adolescents are having to deal with. Just because a parent is uncomfortable talking about these topics, doesn’t mean that it’s wrong for their children to seek out this information or be curious and have questions they need and want answered.

The talk about Deenie having her period was really not that big of a deal. Maybe that’s because I’m a girl and have to deal with it monthly, but I don’t know why the talk of mentration has everyone in an uproar. It’s not like girls can stop the fact that they get their periods every month. Why is everyone so ashamed of something that is just a biological function of the female body? I mean, do we get embarrassed when we talk about boys’ voices cracking when they go through puberty? No, of course not. It’s just something that happens as their bodies change, just like menstruation. If boys are reading this book and they think it’s gross to know about, then that’s on them. One day if they get married and have a wife and/or a daughter, they might have to deal with periods or the side effects of them. There really wasn’t too much talk about her period only that it was pretty sporadic since she first got it. After Deenie got her back brace, she was on the toilet and asked her sister to get her a pad because she got her period. Talking about my period with my female friends is a pretty common thing. It’s something that bonds us together because we all have to deal with it every month. It’s nice to talk to other girls and know that all the cramps and cravings are universal.  

Initially I can see why some parents/teachers may freak out about this book and wanted it banned but after I read it, there’s nothing inappropriate at all about anything written. Judy Blume has a wonderful way of discussing uncomfortable topics in a friendly and matter-of-fact manner. She explains topics like masturbation in ways that make it something to not be ashamed or embarrassed about, while stressing that it is a natural phenomenon that starts when you are going through puberty. Children are curious enough about their changing bodies, why not supply them with information that is accurate and resourceful; it’s better to gain knowledge from a credible and reliable source than hear false information from an older sibling or neighborhood kid.

When I was younger and just learning about sex, I would sit in the library with a stack of books on the topic and read them. I just wanted to know what it was all about and have all the facts straight. It saved me a lot of anxiety when I was going through puberty because I didn’t have to have all these unknowns and unanswered questions. My school was always really good about having health programs that discussed puberty and sex; most of what I initially learned was from those classes. I think those programs are great because kids trust their teachers and feel a little more comfortable asking them sensitive questions rather than their parents. I think children tend to be hesitant to ask their parents about sex because the parents may freak out and think the only reason their kid is asking about the topic is because they’re participating in the act. Sometimes kids are just curious, they are still constantly learning and discovering the big, wide world they’re a part of.

Overall, this is not a book I would think to ban in any library. I thought it conveyed sensitive topics with grace and factual information. It’s almost one of those books that should be a staple for young girls to read, just so they know they are not alone when they start masturbating and menstruating.  

On a side note, Deenie’s mom was a real pain in the butt throughout this book and it irked me every single time she had something to say. She was so overly dramatic and emotional, boarding on hysterical at times. I mean, Deenie ends up having scoliosis, a very treatable and non-life threatening condition. But the way her mom went on about it, you would have thought Deenie contracted some rare blood disease. I didn’t like her mom from the beginning mainly because she wanted Deenie to be a model and didn’t care if her daughter wasn’t into the idea; she didn’t want her child to waste her beautiful face.  The mother always said that Deenie was the pretty one and Helen had the brains. That kind of thinking is what was most inappropriate about this book. How dare a mother degrade her daughter (who is at a pivotal and extremely influential learning age) think that the only thing she is good at is being pretty and that Helen should work hard in school because she’s not going to get far in life based on her looks. All girls should be told that they are beautiful and smart just the way they are and that someone who is worth their time and love will think they are perfect just being themselves. This idea that you can only be pretty or smart has got to stop. I know this book was written in the 70s and times have changed a bit, but we are still dealing with this issue in some way or form today [end rant].

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